In the Collaborative Process the clients are in control, but they are guided by the Professionals in reaching an ultimate conclusion. The clients do not have to figure out how to maneuver through a process they have no familiarity with on their own, as they do in litigation without lawyers.
The Collaborative team lays the foundation to get from the starting point to the conclusion with minimal confusion and contention. The only time the divorcing couple will appear in court is for the ten-minute uncontested final hearing once the Agreements are executed. This last step is the formal process and final step in filing the dissolution of marriage.
The stress of getting divorced is significant for clients and their families. The stress does not need to be increased by having to navigate an unfamiliar system that limits the control of those who are involved.
There are many other significant differences between the Collaborative Process and litigation which I will address in future blogs. This series meant to address some of the core concerns of parties who are entering into the unknown realm of obtaining a divorce.